Delayed ejaculation can mean a marked delay in ejaculation or difficulty ejaculating despite adequate erection and sexual desire. It may be situational or persistent, and the pattern matters.
What is delayed ejaculation?
Delayed ejaculation can mean a marked delay in ejaculation or difficulty ejaculating despite adequate erection and sexual desire. It may be situational or persistent, and the pattern matters.
What can it look like?
- marked or persistent delay despite adequate sexual stimulation
- difficulty reaching orgasm or ejaculation in some or all sexual situations
- worry, frustration or avoidance related to sexual activity
- a new change after starting a medicine, substance use, illness or major stress
How is it assessed?
Assessment is private and non-judgmental. Depending on the concern, it may cover symptom pattern, sexual or relationship context, mood and anxiety, medicines and substances, relevant medical conditions, and the impact on daily life. Examination or investigations may be advised when clinically indicated.
What treatment may involve
Possible contributors include some medicines, especially certain antidepressants, alcohol or recreational substances, diabetes, neurological or other medical conditions, relationship factors, anxiety and sexual expectations. More than one factor may be present.
Assessment often compares partnered sex with masturbation, explores the timing of onset and reviews medicines, substances, mood, anxiety and relevant medical history. Treatment may include addressing a contributing medicine with the prescriber, reducing harmful substance use, psychosexual therapy and treatment of underlying medical or psychological conditions.
A focused sexual-health assessment can help distinguish delayed ejaculation from reduced desire, erectile difficulties, orgasmic difficulties or relationship-related distress.
When should you seek urgent help?
Seek prompt medical evaluation for sudden severe symptoms, significant genital pain or injury, concerning neurological symptoms, or another acute medical problem. For immediate psychiatric or safety concerns, use the nearest emergency medical service.
Questions to bring to a consultation
- When did you first notice the concern?
- How often does it happen, and in what situations?
- How is it affecting your wellbeing, relationship or daily life?
- Are medicines, substances, physical symptoms or major stressors relevant?
Frequently asked questions
Is delayed ejaculation always caused by a physical disease?
No. Physical, medication-related, psychological and relationship factors can all contribute.
Can medicines affect ejaculation?
Yes. Some medicines, including certain antidepressants and other medicines, can delay ejaculation. Medicines should not be stopped without medical advice.
Further reading
These resources are for education and do not replace individualized medical advice.
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